Nick Against the World (48 Viewers)

Maya

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Sep 2, 2004
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++ [ originally posted by Seven ] ++
You know, I just really dislike the current attitude people have towards these kinds of things. For crying out loud, why is it GOOD to be fat? Why should people that are fat be defended? "It's alright you weigh 400kgs" No, IT'S NOT!
The thing is.. what people weight is none of your or mine business.
 

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Dan

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Ach, with fat people its the way they choose to live their life. I just cant understand how the people who eat macdolands 24/7 can look at themselves and relise how unhealhty they are when people in africa starve.
 

Dan

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++ [ originally posted by Maya ] ++


The thing is.. what people weight is none of your or mine business.
They are more likely in the end to die at a younger age due to heart problems, the sad truth, fat people are unhealthy people. Does not mean they should be socially shunned, just its sad they are like that.

*from now on, dont call it fat, because fat people are the ones with a little flab around the belly. 400 kg people are obese, and thats who i mean.
 

Maya

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Sep 2, 2004
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They are more likely in the end to die at a younger age due to heart problems, the sad truth, fat people are unhealthy people. Does not mean they should be socially shunned, just its sad they are like that.

*from now on, dont call it fat, because fat people are the ones with a little flab around the belly. 400 kg people are obese, and thats who i mean.
Still, I don't get what gives us the right to judge others by how they look? Some people are waaaaay too thin.. others are the opposite. If they are comfortable with themselves.. then what's other people's problem?
 

Dragon

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Apr 24, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by gray ] ++

Yeah, since those fat people are always on the lookout for a friend who can help them become skinnier? :rolleyes: That vaguely reminds me of a Zoolander quote...

"Models help people! They make them feel good about themselves. They also show them how to dress cool and how to wear their hair in interesting ways"


phew, I was starting to think you're a weirdo. Imagine that, defending fat people :eek:


Nothing against you at all fabi, and I know you were responding to Nick's comment... but in that particular post, you make 'fat people' out to be some kind of a different species of humans whose brains are wired differently from everyone else
In response also to mikhail: Maybe you misunderstood me. I said 'help her become skinnier' since he doesnt like fat people. In my case I wouldnt help someone become skinnier simply because their weight isnt my problem

I dont think fat people are different species of humans, in fact Nicks post made me think about how many fat friends I have and it turns out to be I have a LOT who sometimes feel pretty bad because theyre fat and they cant do anything about it. Losing weight isnt as easy as it seems, it takes lots of times and also a change because some of them are used to eating whatever junk food they have, and starting to eat vegetables, tuna and salads only is tough.

And what I said about not defending fat people... they being fat or thin isnt none of my business, I was just stating my opinion
 

Dragon

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Apr 24, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by Seven ] ++
You know, I just really dislike the current attitude people have towards these kinds of things. For crying out loud, why is it GOOD to be fat? Why should people that are fat be defended? "It's alright you weigh 400kgs" No, IT'S NOT!
400kgs is a bit too much. But whats wrong with being a little overweight? It seems like men expect women to look like Gisele Bundchen and Adriana Lima all the time
 

Dragon

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Apr 24, 2003
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Christ, all fat women are moany spoil-sports? That's as stupid an attitude as that blondes are dumb.
I meant that about being shallow, not being fat
Why are you rejecting them in the first place? Does it really matter to you how your friends look? I might not be as attracted to a fat girl, but it wouldn't stop me getting to know her.
Im not rejecting someone, in fact I agree with what you said
 

mikhail

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Jan 24, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by fabiana ] ++
I meant that about being shallow, not being fat
It's not that rare. Maybe you're just hanging out with the wrong people. ;)

Im not rejecting someone, in fact I agree with what you said
Not quite. You implied that it's okay to reject someone because they're happy with being obese.
"What about what Graham said? what if theyre fat because theyre diabetic and they simply cannot get thinner?
If theyre fat because they chose to be fat then shame on them, but I dont think you should reject someone because theyre overweight, maybe youre losing someone whom you could connect in an intellectual level, that would make you happy, because shes overweight and you could actually help her become skinnier."

If that's not what you meant, fine, but otherwise, 'fess up, and defend your point of view.
 

Dan

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++ [ originally posted by Maya ] ++


Still, I don't get what gives us the right to judge others by how they look? Some people are waaaaay too thin.. others are the opposite. If they are comfortable with themselves.. then what's other people's problem?
Its a right given to us by god, its our insticnts. We judge people on a few things, safe/dangerous good sexual genes/not good sexual genes. Obese people are a turn off, because they are less fit and would be in stone age times more unlikely to catch dinner and more likely to be caught by a lion. Or likely to live shorter. People who look ' good ' are our insticnts saying this is a healthy person.Our caveman insticts havent changed much, that is no exception.

However, one other fact to point out. Should glue sniffer be helped, or shall he/she be let to get on with a path of sure self-destruction. Should a person with an obese eating dis-order be let to eat themselves to the grave? Its the same thing.
 

Dan

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Might i add, i, personally have no problem with being friends with any so called overweight people. I, like my insticts tell me, do not find them attractive however. Obese people are people and thats what counts in the long run.
 

mikhail

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Jan 24, 2003
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Should glue sniffer be helped, or shall he/she be let to get on with a path of sure self-destruction. Should a person with an obese eating dis-order be let to eat themselves to the grave? Its the same thing.
Yes, it's the same, but it's not what's being debated here. The question we're argueing over is this: is being fat a reason to behave anti-socially towards someone? And I've yet to see a good arguement on the 'yes' side.
 

Henry

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Sep 30, 2003
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The problem is that especially in the US, there are fat people that don't even try to lose weight or anything. if someone tries to lose weight, you have to admire them because it is so difficult to do so. And even though it is sometimes hard to do, I always at least try and treat fat or obese people the same way I would treat the most attractive girl in the world. And the thing is there are so many fat people in the US. You see ten year old kids that are incredibly obese-which is really the parents fault, but what kind of parent lets their child get so overweight? as someone said, there are some people whom genetically have a hard time not getting fat, but that is only a small percentage. so many people just continue witht their lives, eating at McDonalds and Burger king two or three meals a day, and they teach their kids the same thing. but at the same time, you do have to treat them the same way you treat anybody else
 

Dan

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++ [ originally posted by mikhail ] ++

Yes, it's the same, but it's not what's being debated here. The question we're argueing over is this: is being fat a reason to behave anti-socially towards someone? And I've yet to see a good arguement on the 'yes' side.
Ah jesus no of course not. They arent threatening or harming you in anyway.
 

gray

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Apr 22, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by blackmint ] ++
Its a right given to us by god
careful :)
++ [ originally posted by blackmint ] ++
Obese people are a turn off, because they are less fit and would be in stone age times more unlikely to catch dinner and more likely to be caught by a lion.
no offence dan, but what a load of tripe! In stone age times, women weren't expected to catch dinner, and being caught by a lion wasn't (believe it or not) something they worried about on a daily basis. In those times, the males were the hunters/gatherers, while the women served mostly to bear children (not to be sexist or anything, but that's how it is). That being the case, a woman with large hips would be much more valued for their child-bearing ability than a frail woman who looked like she'd die during labour.

Also, fat people have only been looked down upon relatively recently, since so many modern societies have all the basic needs of food and water in abundance. While being fat in today's society means a lack of self-control, having a large girth decades/centuries ago was considered a sign of being rich, and there are still many societies today that respect larger people
++ [ originally posted by blackmint ] ++
However, one other fact to point out. Should glue sniffer be helped, or shall he/she be let to get on with a path of sure self-destruction. Should a person with an obese eating dis-order be let to eat themselves to the grave? Its the same thing.
tell me honestly though, how many people who judge people according to their weight, actually care about the well-being of that person. It's not really common to see people say "my gosh, look at that fat bastard. I really hope he doesn't have a heart condition". It's just a copout to try and justify these kind of comments by saying that they're endangering themselves, even though that may well be the case.
 

River

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Jun 15, 2004
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I didn't know you were a former PUGILIST Vincenzo...another reason not to fek with this Italo-American Shake drinking bestia in Uniform. Thank God the Cops at San Siro and Delle Alpi don't follow your regiment and hobbies otherwise my veggie throwing days would be long gone.
Do you guys remember Arturo Gatti? When he began training in the late 80's in NY he stayed at our house for a month or two since my parents knew someone on his side, etc. The kid was a sick fecker...he would taunt the neighbor's rottweiller...got into like 10 fights the first day he arrived and insisted much like Jake LaMotta I punch him in the head with a towel around my fist. Crazy Fecker...GOOD TIMES!

Riv...yes the Spice teen thing was my creation and though Pado, Sergio and co. claim I lost my touch I think the RIV-AH SPICE think is kind of 'spot on'. Your a spice girl with bite and bitterness. Emma was much more blunt and to the point...you are fairly blunt but I have yet to see you make any point :cheesy:

Fliakis: I never turn down a beer ... let me know what game your planning to come down to watch. Can we bring Lilianna :dontcare:
Im not here as an emma alternative. And ive made many points, your just bitter because I made you look like a fool over the whole graham, besy suck up stuff. And I still dont know why you are talking to me ;)
 

Dan

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++ [ originally posted by HWIENIAWSKI ] ++
The problem is that especially in the US, there are fat people that don't even try to lose weight or anything. if someone tries to lose weight, you have to admire them because it is so difficult to do so. And even though it is sometimes hard to do, I always at least try and treat fat or obese people the same way I would treat the most attractive girl in the world. And the thing is there are so many fat people in the US. You see ten year old kids that are incredibly obese-which is really the parents fault, but what kind of parent lets their child get so overweight ? as someone said, there are some people whom genetically have a hard time not getting fat, but that is only a small percentage. so many people just continue witht their lives, eating at McDonalds and Burger king two or three meals a day, and they teach their kids the same thing. but at the same time, you do have to treat them the same way you treat anybody else
If i might correct you, the schools and coca cola is very much to blame.
The american school budget was once on average a dollar per stundent, or some ridiculous figure. Companys have exploited the fact that children are so impressionable, and there for have paid the schools to post advertisements on the premisis, and coke and fatty snacks machines.
The american school budget is mainly funded by certain types of advertising, such as coke, pepsi, and fatty snacks. In return, the schools have to 'encourage' drinking their soft drinks. The companys post their advertisments on the walls, and machines in the corridors. The average child in america has something along the lines of 2 cans of coke a day!!
What the companys benefit from is brand loyaty, as the next time the so called child is looking for a beverage, and he sees coke, he will automatically remeber he/she has seen/tried it before, and buy it. (assuming he/she didnt hate it). The parents have no control what the children drink in school, and the school is put under pressure by the parents for their unhealthy products, or their low budget.
 

mikhail

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Jan 24, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by blackmint ] ++
The american school budget was once on average a dollar per stundent, or some ridiculous figure. Companys have exploited the fact...
All of whihc is the end result in a society which doesn't believe in the welfare of its own people. Compair the healthcare, education and social welfare funding of the US to that of the EU, and you'll see why I have no plans to move.
 

Dragon

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Apr 24, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by mikhail ] ++

It's not that rare. Maybe you're just hanging out with the wrong people. ;)
Probably

Not quite. You implied that it's okay to reject someone because they're happy with being obese.
"What about what Graham said? what if theyre fat because theyre diabetic and they simply cannot get thinner?
If theyre fat because they chose to be fat then shame on them, but I dont think you should reject someone because theyre overweight, maybe youre losing someone whom you could connect in an intellectual level, that would make you happy, because shes overweight and you could actually help her become skinnier."

If that's not what you meant, fine, but otherwise, 'fess up, and defend your point of view.
No! Im saying that fat people shouldnt be rejected even if theyre happy with being fat. Thats not my problem so I wont reject them because they like to be fat or not
 

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