Zlatan ( did i spell it right this time ? )
nature ? what is that supposed to mean ?
we hurt other people because of something stupid we do/say or we hurt others because we know too much ... and we hurt ourselves too
when we want to hurt someone,
and we are doing it on purpose,
we can not judge this...
some ppl are doing this because they are stupid and they want to hurt someone even without a reason,
and some...are clever and have reasons.
somtimes it is also called revenge!
I think intent is the cause of all emotional pain suffered by humans.
I could intentionally do something to cause you emotional pain. Reasons, means could be varied & I could use my intellect to do so. Maybe am in a relationship & I would cheat on you & then lie to you.
I could unintentionally cause you emotional pain. Using the same example above while cheating on you with another person who doesn't know that am in another relationship. So she will be causing you emotional pain unitentionally.
So if you don't do it intentionally it does not automatically fall into the stupidity criteria.
you can control pain. pain or problem only becomes pain or problem if you make it to be. for example, if Juventus gets relegated, you can regard it in two ways- positively or negatively. You can choose. and if you choose to be sad and regard that as a problem, then that's your problem and whoever chooses to be sad I believe is because of their stupidity, not intelligence.
Well in this case I've been stupid all along
Don't be a part of the problem, be part of the solution.