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bahraini

Senior Member
May 20, 2003
555
#1
i really nice a good advice for this...
i wrote it very long, cuz i wanted to make everything clear..
so please , i would be glad if you will give me 10 minutes of
your time and give me ur idea....with all my thanx


about 10 years ago , we with my friends were trouble makers
, but it was only teens troubles.. one guy who is older that us , i think 4 years more was among us , but this guy
is really trouble maker. od u can say disaster makers ,
he always make big big troubles .
so we grew up , through that life behind us , cuz we became men.
but i left the group b4 anyone , cuz i never liked what
was happening to us,,
but now all the guys became true men ,,,
and now , after 10 years , that guy came back to me
and started to talk about the old days and about our group,
and how he misses the guys..
i knew that there is something behind this
, and what i was so sure about , its a big problem.
so he took my number, and called , after 2 days.
the reason was really stupid, he told me that his pc
is not working well and want me to fix it ,
i told him that i don't know how to fix pc's which i was lying,
and i recommanded my friend's shop to him.
he said no , i want u to see it , cuz i don't want to be charged
and pay alot for something silly . so he asked if only i can see
his pc to know whats wrong then he can see what he can do.
i told him again , im only a user for pc , not a fixer
he kept asking by many way to come and see it but i closed the
door on his face.
after he realized that im not coming, he went to plan B
and asked where am i , cuz he wanted to go out.
i told him im busy and closed the line...

now , i know there is a problem behind him
and i don't want to get involved , cuz i left that life behind me
specially him. i don't like him at all...

so i put his name on my mobile, DON'T ANSWER.
but what i really want is to get red of him. i'm thinking
to say it straight to the face...
don't call again , cuz i don't want to know u anymore...

but i don't want to make other troubles for me...

so do u think what i'm thinking about is a good idea
or do u have another one???
 

Anders

Senior Member
Dec 13, 2002
3,134
#3
hmmmm, that's a bit tricky...

I was like that too once, and I also left some "friends" behind. We were doing drugs, drinking heavily and getting in to some serious trouble at times.

When I left those guys, they were calling me at first, but I just ignored them. Later on, one of the guys got hostile. He was probably the worst of them. I was in some club when I met him. We were both drunk and when I didn't wanna talk to him, he got very very mad.... which led to a fight involving 5-10 guys.

He got the message that I never wanted to see his face again, and after that I haven't heard from any of them.

My advise would be to tell him to stay away. But be carefull, cuz you never know how they'll react. You could also ignore him and if you're lucky, he might get tired and leave you alone.
 

BloodOnMoral

Senior Member
Jun 4, 2003
4,232
#4
@kaliman : phew
i am so glad that you managed to overpass something like that
@bahraini : if the guy is dangerous you really should try to stay away from him
if you wanna go see him no matter what, better take a trusting friend with you too
this might help
 
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bahraini

bahraini

Senior Member
May 20, 2003
555
#5
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
its as Kaliman said , it's tricky
how to loose him without being in trouble...
for sure i will ignore....

but going to him with a friend , no
i want to avoid anything with him
what i'll be sure about it , i will never go out with him again..

but what if happen that i must face him...
????????
 
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bahraini

Senior Member
May 20, 2003
555
#7
++ [ originally posted by BloodOnMoral ] ++
if you must face him, try not to be alone as i said, and try to be during day and in a nice populated place :D
this will be the very last thing to do
,
i hope i can finish it and to stay away...

thanx for ur advice people
:D
 

Hydde

Duke NUKEM
Mar 6, 2003
36,738
#9
Yeah, be careful.....remember that this guy is not very well mentally. and you dont know how he will react.

Remember that if you and him did crazy things years ago, i doubt that he have changed, and now grown up, someone can do worse things.

Just be careful.
 

Tom

The DJ
Oct 30, 2001
11,726
#13
don't you think you should confide in people you actually know rather than giving every internet user in the world potential access to it?

If I had some major problem like this I would never post it on a forum. Never
 

Mac

Senior Member
Jul 11, 2002
1,411
#15
tell the guy to his face that you have changed, tell him your different now and dont want to risk getting into anything like before again.

If you ignore him you will always have to avoid him.
 
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bahraini

bahraini

Senior Member
May 20, 2003
555
#17
++ [ originally posted by BloodOnMoral ] ++
tom, maybe the man was really worried and felt alone and so he came here and told us about this. i would trust you more than some of my so-called "friends" too :down:
thanx:)

thats what i meant Tom,,,
first of all you are my friends too....
also if i asked you , u will give me new ideas
which i will get from the people i know...

and if u say ppl in the net will know about it...
can u tell me how many of you know who i am..???
i mean even if u knew my name , my birthday , or anything else
u still don't know me personally...

i know im safe here
:D:D:cool:
 
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bahraini

bahraini

Senior Member
May 20, 2003
555
#18
++ [ originally posted by McFarlando ] ++
tell the guy to his face that you have changed, tell him your different now and dont want to risk getting into anything like before again.

If you ignore him you will always have to avoid him.
u have a point here....
but facing well mean challenge , and maybe
makin an enemy...

and thats what i don't want to happen
 

Tom

The DJ
Oct 30, 2001
11,726
#20
++ [ originally posted by BloodOnMoral ] ++
tom, maybe the man was really worried and felt alone and so he came here and told us about this. i would trust you more than some of my so-called "friends" too :down:
Then you need new friends
 

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