++ [ originally posted by chxta ] ++
You have insulted me on more than one occassion and in different posts.
Fine, let us for one second assume that I am a murderer, does it change the fact that Al Capone for example was a murderer and that I can point that out to him? If abortion is murder (and IMO it is), then even I who am a murderer in your opinion can point that out.
Yes, I stand my ground that you are narrow minded because I have time without number pointed out to you that that incident from my past was not yesterday, it was a decade ago, but you chose to judge the entire me based on that and not based on any other thing I may have done before or since.
You are narrow minded because you refuse to see the other side of the coin that the unfortunate man whom I ran over (and I am sorry to have to say this) was quite drunk and it was a case of 6 of one and half a dozen of the other.
You are narrow minded because you have refused to accept the fact that in every country that I know of (maybe bar yours) the age of 15 is a legal minor and as a result cannot end up in prison. I wasn't sent to a remand home (which according to Nigerian law is the worst that could have happened to me at the time), because yes, my parent's lawyers pointed out (correctly) that the man was very drunk at the time, and it was supported by various witnesses that he practically jumped in front of my car.
You refused to acknowledge (did you even read that far) that I was prevented from driving for a very long time because of that incident, and that I was so torn by guilt that as soon as I finished from my secondary school the following year, I joined the Army.
You chose to just focus on the fact that one sad day in 1995 when his parents travelled out of town that an over-enthusiastic 15 year old decided to take a drive and in the process committed man slaughter.
That my friend is narrow mindedness.
Like any other human being, I have my own faults, and they are plenty. But I realise that people make mistakes and move on. That we can move on is what makes us human. Learn from mistakes made, and go on.
Concerning the abortion issue once again...
I said in this thread that:
I am against abortion.
Abortion is murder.
A foetus is a living being, not an inanimate object that can be removed at will.
Abortion can be condoned for one of two reasons: when you have a rape case, or when it can be proved medically that giving birth will harm the mother.
I still believe that abortion as advocated by all the pro-abortion activists is open to abuse, and Fabiana corroborated that belief when she made a statement about someone who got pregnant, had an abortion and a month later was looking for another abortion. That is murder in every sense of the word.
That is my position. None of the pro abortion members here have been able to say anything to convince me that that position is wrong, so I am still there.
@ Dominic, I have read through the entire thread, and I have seen instances where a question put to me by someone is answered by another before I can think up an answer. So why should I in such a scenario answer? Wouldn't that be repitition?
@ Zlatan, to the people who matter to me, I am not a murderer. To you (whom I have never met), I am. So be it.