Abortion, good or bad? (12 Viewers)

Nicole

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Sep 16, 2004
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To answer your question Nicole, I am not a woman, and I can't put myself in a woman's place on this issue. But I strongly believe that with the exception of certain cases, as stated earlier in this thread, abortion is bad!
You see. you dont have a right to say that.

You dont and cant understand what it is like, firstly do you think it is even an easy decision to make, you say they can get an abortion "again and again", do you think most people can do that?

So what about Fabi's friend who didnt learn, so what? They'll be hundreds of girls like that, and there'll be hundreds more who took precautions and still go pregnant, you can lump them all together
 

Nicole

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Sep 16, 2004
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Me? I'm against people who are against people against those who are against people opposed to those against abortion... and I'm against those against them too.

Dammit!

:confused:

Whew. Glad to get that off my chest.
Werent you saying something about pointless posts :D I didnt read all that thread :p
 

Nicole

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Sep 16, 2004
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++ [ originally posted by Shadowfax ] ++


Whilst im pretty much in total agreement with you on abortion... I cannot agree with this train of thought....

Though i did until a certain day in time...

When one day in the future you are pregnant and you goto the hospital for your first scan... The moment you look at that monitor and for the first time see your child... You will never think of it as jus an 'embryo' ever again... and from that moment on you will see only a living , breathing, growing human being... Your child... Not an embryo...

You can disagree... but you will see when that day comes
I 100% agree Shadowfax, I did say earlier in this thread, that if I ever did I would have the baby cause I wouldnt like to have an abortion personally. I am only arguing this because I believe it is right for a woman to be allowed to have an abortion if she chooses too
 
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Chxta

Chxta

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Nov 1, 2004
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    The fact that you were a minor does not for one second change the fact that you did not suffer any cosnequences for killing a man, yet you insist on other people suffering the consequences of their own deeds, even if they themselves are minors as YOU were. If that is not hypocritical, I don't know what is.

    And you so conviniently decided to skip my long post from above, and failed to answer me this question?

    How exactly did you pay your dues, as you said you did.
    Do a search. I have stated it in this forum before. I have nothing to prove to you.
     
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    Chxta

    Chxta

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    I 100% agree Shadowfax, I did say earlier in this thread, that if I ever did I would have the baby cause I wouldnt like to have an abortion personally. I am only arguing this because I believe it is right for a woman to be allowed to have an abortion if she chooses too
    My very grouse. It shouldn't be a matter of choice. It should be a matter of when there is no other option... Necessity...
     

    Nicole

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    My very grouse. It shouldn't be a matter of choice. It should be a matter of when there is no other option... Necessity...
    No, its choice. You choose to have a baby, when you want to, nothing else. Its a mum choice, nothing else. No god or whatever has that right, call me whatever I dont believe in god so what, if he did exist, he could make it so men could have kids, would LOVE to see that!
     

    Geof

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    May 14, 2004
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    My very grouse. It shouldn't be a matter of choice. It should be a matter of when there is no other option... Necessity...
    Isn't life a choice?

    how can a baby be happy when he isn't a choice but a ... necessity?
     

    Zlatan

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    Jun 9, 2003
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    Do a search. I have stated it in this forum before. I have nothing to prove to you.

    Again, you chose to ignore the posts or parts of posts that dont suit you. Excellent.


    And for your information, the fact that you "had to live with your decision every day" and that you "regret it" doesnt really fit the crime you did, nor does your serving the army really pay your dues. Does that mean everyone who saves a few lives has a right to take them as well?


    Also, if you paid your dues "by having to live with it", doesn't that mean that the women are paying their dues for abortion by having to live with it afterwards? You're using one set of rules and logic for yourself and a complete another for others.
     

    Bjerknes

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    ++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++


    I 100% agree Shadowfax, I did say earlier in this thread, that if I ever did I would have the baby cause I wouldnt like to have an abortion personally. I am only arguing this because I believe it is right for a woman to be allowed to have an abortion if she chooses too
    I'm sorry, but abortion is most the time completely uneccesary and there is just something sick about people who approve of it. I can't believe people are so quick to kill a future human being.

    Right to Choose? I'm sorry but the baby wouldn't choose the extermination option.
     

    gray

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    Thanks John, I appreciate that.

    ++ [ originally posted by Zlatan ] ++
    Thats an incredibly bad comparation.
    I was trying to illustrate two extremes. Getting pregnant despite taking precautionary measures wouldn't be considered utter stupidity or carelessness, but I was trying to say that people need to face the consequences of their actions regardless of what they do.
    ++ [ originally posted by Acies ] ++
    Oh please, why would it be ignorant? I know exactly why Gray is against abortion and I'm also fully aware that his opinion is pretty much indoctrinated. Definitely when the origin of his belief is christian.

    Please. It's nice to have a well thought out argument when people think for you. Whether or not it's well thought out doesn't mean it can't be indoctrinated.
    I'd appreciate it if you'd stop making assumptions about me. You don't know me, and you don't know the first thing about me.

    It's so easy for you to say that people think for me, isn't it? As if everyone who has religious beliefs hasn't thought them through for themselves. I wasn't born and bred in a cathedral, nor have I been brainwashed from birth with the "burn in hell" doctrine.

    My views on abortion aren't so because some priest told me "ABORTION IS WRONG, SAY THAT 100 TIMES OUT LOUD".

    My views on abortion stem simply from the fact that I value human life, whether that be potential or current.

    Another thing... I'm not Catholic, so your sweeping generalisations are groundless in any case.

    ++ [ originally posted by Acies ] ++
    I can't help, but this opinion is represented by pretty much every catholic out there.
    I could say the same thing about your point of view. It's represented by pretty much every pro-abortionist in the world. Do you think you're the first person to have though of the "but it's not alive" argument?

    You seem to have a disdain for any point of view that stems from a religious belief. I don't have a problem with that, but you also seem to assume that your point of view is more independent and valid than my own, despite our respective viewpoints being shared on the same scale.
    ++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
    Coming from a Italian family, she is right. Italy is still a little far behind in its idea because although it is gradually losing it's grip, the Vatican still holds a huge influence.
    Thanks for that little political commentary Nicole, but I'm not Roman Catholic so it has little to no relevance here..

    ++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
    Chxta, you dont understand it isnt murder. Murder is when you kill someone, a living, breathing human being. As Acies said, an 'embryo' isnt alive, it doesnt breath. until she gives birth to it, until the doctor goes snip snip, it is part of her! NOTHING else.
    and what is a fetus? It's living, it requires oxygen to live, and it's human...

    "doesn't breathe" is a pretty shady way to define whether a fetus has the right to live or not...

    Consider this (I know I'm going a bit over-the-top with my hypothetical situations here, but please bear with me)...

    Imagine that woman going through labour changes her mind at the last minute and says that she doesn't want the baby. So the doctor reaches into her womb and covered the baby's nostrils and mouth, just as its head is about to emerge, killing it.

    Would you consider that to be murder? It has never breathed before and was still a part of its mother's body... by your definition, is that just another abortion?

    ++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
    Can it solely exist on its own? No, of course not, it is physically CONNECTED to her, it makes it part of her! Making it HER choice
    ++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
    It couldnt exist without the support of the mother,
    Neither can a severely disabled child... does that give them any less right to live?

    ++ [ originally posted by Nicole ] ++
    Seriously chxta, I like you. But your no ignorant, have you even tried to imagine what it would be like for a woman to go through pregnancies? Has it even entered your mind that the mother is actually a living breathing person?
    So because it's uncomfortable for a woman to nourish her child and go through labour, she should have the right to end a child's life?

    Again, I don't claim to understand the extent of how painful and physically draining it can be for a woman to have a child, but AFAIK it's not the equivalent of castration female circumcision... pregnancy is a natural process which millions of women go through each day. I know that doesn't make it any less painful, but to simply brush off any male's point of view "because he won't ever understand what it's like to be pregnant" is a bit of a cop-out, don't you think?

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    Me? I'm against people who are against people against those who are against people opposed to those against abortion... and I'm against those against them too.
    Are you a Monty Python fan by any chance? :D
     

    adams

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    1. If you are responsible enough to go around spreading your legs recklessly, you are responsible for its consequences.

    2. I find it wrong to victimise an unborn child because its an "inconvenience'. If taking care of a child is work and you dont want to do it the solution is not to kill it. The solution is to be responsible and take steps to prevent a birth. If you had to take care of your old mum and dad and it was too much work would you kill them?

    3. I sympathise with people who are not properly educated about sex or who dont have birth control available to them, therefore in this matter I believe it is the governments responsibility to make sex education and distribution of birth control a higher priority than abortion.

    There.
     

    Dragon

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    ++ [ originally posted by adams ] ++
    1. If you are responsible enough to go around spreading your legs recklessly, you are responsible for its consequences.

    2. I find it wrong to victimise an unborn child because its an "inconvenience'. If taking care of a child is work and you dont want to do it the solution is not to kill it. The solution is to be responsible and take steps to prevent a birth. If you had to take care of your old mum and dad and it was too much work would you kill them?

    3. I sympathise with people who are not properly educated about sex or who dont have birth control available to them, therefore in this matter I believe it is the governments responsibility to make sex education and distribution of birth control a higher priority than abortion.

    There.
    Spot on! n3 was perfectly put
     

    Nicole

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    ++ [ originally posted by gray ] ++
    and what is a fetus? It's living, it requires oxygen to live, and it's human...

    "doesn't breathe" is a pretty shady way to define whether a fetus has the right to live or not...

    Consider this (I know I'm going a bit over-the-top with my hypothetical situations here, but please bear with me)...

    Imagine that woman going through labour changes her mind at the last minute and says that she doesn't want the baby. So the doctor reaches into her womb and covered the baby's nostrils and mouth, just as its head is about to emerge, killing it.

    Would you consider that to be murder? It has never breathed before and was still a part of its mother's body... by your definition, is that just another abortion?
    That is taking it over the top, I really doubt that has ever happened, it would be more likely the baby would be put up for adoption.

    Neither can a severely disabled child... does that give them any less right to live?
    You didnt understand what I meant, I meant it couldnt survive without the mum during pregnancy, as for your example yes because social services would probably take the child in.

    So because it's uncomfortable for a woman to nourish her child and go through labour, she should have the right to end a child's life?

    Again, I don't claim to understand the extent of how painful and physically draining it can be for a woman to have a child, but AFAIK it's not the equivalent of castration female circumcision... pregnancy is a natural process which millions of women go through each day. I know that doesn't make it any less painful, but to simply brush off any male's point of view "because he won't ever understand what it's like to be pregnant" is a bit of a cop-out, don't you think?
    Maybe it is, but its hard to describe it unless you can at least imagine what it is like.

    As for what you said, the baby is her child. her responsiblity, her decision to make, i find it a bit unfair that someone who has a abortion made like made out to be monsters, no they are. What is wrong with someone wanting to live there own life before they have children? By then it can make them a better mother, instead of just being a teenage mum who cant cope, **** her head up as well as the babies'.
     

    Nicole

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    3. I sympathise with people who are not properly educated about sex or who dont have birth control available to them, therefore in this matter I believe it is the governments responsibility to make sex education and distribution of birth control a higher priority than abortion.
    I agree 100%
     

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