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    Quote Originally Posted by king Ale View Post
    You're accusing me of what I found wrong about what you and others said I never said getting over someone is wrong lol. I'm the one here who is trying to stay away from generalizations when it comes to something as unique as love. Even the way I love differs from one person I love to another. To say you should be over everyone after a year is ridiculous. You might get over a person much faster than you will for another person, which means it's not so much about you or your coping mechanism as it is about the other person. And if you think you can and you should get over everyone in a year, you have yet to meet a person who is impossible to get over. Poor poor you



    I agree

    Staying away from someone because you are getting too emotionally invested?



    You DEFINITELY can't. You can decide how to act upon it though, which is often the difference between a responsible and irresponsible person. Things I read here




    Our emotions are ours. They're projections as much as they really are about the other person. For someone arguing that almost all behaviour is inherently selfish, it's funny that you can't see how self-centered we are.

    The fact you, a woman in her thirties, still don't believe you have at least some degree over control over who you fall in love with speaks volumes. Either you really are that naive or you're just desperate to be special.

    And I pity you. Because you have not yet reached the level of maturity to realise that making conscious decisions in the field of love does not devalue the human experience, but rather makes any connection stronger and more intimate.

    But you go ahead and watch the notebook again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Seven View Post
    Our emotions are ours. They're projections as much as they really are about the other person. For someone arguing that almost all behaviour is inherently selfish, it's funny that you can't see how self-centered we are.

    The fact you, a woman in her thirties, still don't believe you have at least some degree over control over who you fall in love with speaks volumes. Either you really are that naive or you're just desperate to be special.

    And I pity you. Because you have not yet reached the level of maturity to realise that making conscious decisions in the field of love does not devalue the human experience, but rather makes any connection stronger and more intimate.

    But you go ahead and watch the notebook again.
    how are you doing? are you still with that girl who plays footie?
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    Have no idea !!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seven View Post
    Our emotions are ours. They're projections as much as they really are about the other person. For someone arguing that almost all behaviour is inherently selfish, it's funny that you can't see how self-centered we are.

    The fact you, a woman in her thirties, still don't believe you have at least some degree over control over who you fall in love with speaks volumes. Either you really are that naive or you're just desperate to be special.

    And I pity you. Because you have not yet reached the level of maturity to realise that making conscious decisions in the field of love does not devalue the human experience, but rather makes any connection stronger and more intimate.

    But you go ahead and watch the notebook again.
    You know nothing of ethics of discussion, which is why I often avoid discussing things with you. But here's a last. The inferences that you are making are so poor I'd rather believe you do it intentionally only for the sake of thinking that you have won an argument.

    The "all human act is selfish" bit was what you said. I said I agreed with it, we were not arguing over that. I do believe there are rare occasions in which people act extremely selflessly, and committing a suicide is not one of those occasions.

    I made a distinction between how we feel and how we act. When someone spits at you, anger, shame, embarrassment, or all follow. You can decide whether to punch the aggressor or let it go. You can decide whether to make it about yourself or about the other person. There comes self-control: over feelings, emotions, whims, desires, impulses. You are dead if you don't feel those feels. You are powerful if you know how to act on them. You see and smell a chocolate cake and you feel like having it. Control is how you respond to that. You see a beautiful person and you fall for them. Power is about the move you make. That's why people are held responsible for their actions, and rightly so.

    I have no intention of proving to you of all people anything about myself. So I finish with the fact that I have yet to watch the notebook.
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    Quote Originally Posted by king Ale View Post
    You know nothing of ethics of discussion, which is why I often avoid discussing things with you. But here's a last. The inferences that you are making are so poor I'd rather believe you do it intentionally only for the sake of thinking that you have won an argument.

    The "all human act is selfish" bit was what you said. I said I agreed with it, we were not arguing over that. I do believe there are rare occasions in which people act extremely selflessly, and committing a suicide is not one of those occasions.

    I made a distinction between how we feel and how we act. When someone spits at you, anger, shame, embarrassment, or all follow. You can decide whether to punch the aggressor or let it go. You can decide whether to make it about yourself or about the other person. There comes self-control: over feelings, emotions, whims, desires, impulses. You are dead if you don't feel those feels. You are powerful if you know how to act on them. You see and smell a chocolate cake and you feel like having it. Control is how you respond to that. You see a beautiful person and you fall for them. Power is about the move you make. That's why people are held responsible for their actions, and rightly so.

    I have no intention of proving to you of all people anything about myself. So I finish with the fact that I have yet to watch the notebook.
    So you do agree falling for someone is not loving them but rather, like the word suggests, a slip up in our self control. The fact is the only reason we are attracted to each other is to procreate, and from a woman's perspective the couple is her best chance for survival.

    Und alles, was man weiss, nicht bloss rauschen und brausen gehört hat, lässt sich in drei Worten sagen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GordoDeCentral View Post
    So you do agree falling for someone is not loving them but rather, like the word suggests, a slip up in our self control . The fact is the only reason we are attracted to each other is to procreate, and from a woman's perspective the couple is her best chance for survival.

    No i don't agree with that and I didn't say that. Whether you feel you love this person or this chocolate cake is not a self control failure. Whether you sleep with a married person you feel you love or whether you eat the cake though you know you shouldn't cause you have diabetes are self control failures. This argument was in reference to what soren said about people who get involved with parents of their students and argue they cannot control who they fall for. My point was, this is the action you can control and are held responsible for.
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    Quote Originally Posted by king Ale View Post
    No i don't agree with that and I didn't say that. Whether you feel you love this person or this chocolate cake is not a self control failure. Whether you sleep with a married person you feel you love or whether you eat the cake though you know you shouldn't cause you have diabetes are self control failures. This argument was in reference to what soren said about people who get involved with parents of their students and argue they cannot control who they fall for. My point was, this is the action you can control and are held responsible for.
    Do you believe that these relationships are 'wrong'
    Und alles, was man weiss, nicht bloss rauschen und brausen gehört hat, lässt sich in drei Worten sagen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Badass Vidal/Marcelo View Post
    Vucinic he once told Arturo that he will fuck Arturo mother and sister and Arturo was mad, but then he saw that Mirko tells that to everyone and he even told his twin brother that he will fuck his mother and sister. That is something Mirko say all the time and now nobody is angry with Mirko.

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    Quote Originally Posted by king Ale View Post
    My point was, this is the action you can control and are held responsible for.
    Did I miss something or didn't you write the opposite? Then I agree.

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