Mohad

The Ocean Star
May 20, 2009
6,684
What's wrong with that? How is that hurting her and:

Isn't?

What if a girl treats you like that? Would you seriously prefer this asshole treatment over the simple truth that she isn't into you?
You can notice if a girl is into you or not from the first conversation. Either way I won't get emo if that happens to me unlike girls.
 

DAiDEViL

Senior Member
Feb 21, 2015
64,580
You can notice if a girl is into you or not from the first conversation. Either way I won't get emo if that happens to me unlike girls.
Leaving them in the dark about if you actually like them or not, by not answering the phone, is the behaviour of a true coward.

sounds like avoidance behaviour to me.

You are more concerned about the girls reaction, the conversation, than about hurting her feelings.
 

IliveForJuve

Burn this club
Jan 17, 2011
18,921
Leaving them in the dark about if you actually like them or not, by not answering the phone, is the behaviour of a true coward.

sounds like avoidance behaviour to me.

You are more concerned about the girls reaction, the conversation, than about hurting her feelings.
Actually, no.

Most men stop texting back because they become uninterested (it's boring and a waste of time). Has nothing to do with avoiding an awkward conversation or hurting her feelings.
 

Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,484
bunch of chauvenist pigs. No sarcasm.
They going over board but there is a point to it, if you have prior relationship before dating and can even it amicably and honestly, fine. But if it's a random girl over dating site. Fuck it, you never know how they will react.


My friend set me up with some random, and after I told her honestly and gently I'm not interesting for more after few dates, she blew a fuse of cuckoo crazy, phone harassed me and sent threatening msgs to any female in my surroundings =incredibly embarrassing). Went on for 2 months.


That's unique case yes, most take it better, but in general less said in ending casual dating the better in my experience. Especially when you have no social connection besides the brief dates (said friend didn't even know her besides meeting in a party).


Probably could avoided that just by ignoring her text completely (not out of cowardice, but nothing to say, you weren't in a relationship...) and didn't go for face to face clean break.

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IliveForJuve

Burn this club
Jan 17, 2011
18,921
Folks just need to learn how to hit it and quit it

It's not that difficult
:agree:

That's why Sheik needs horny goat weed, to boost that libido.

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A former co-worker I used to have sex with became obessed with me and would occasionally hit me while yelling I should ask her to be my gf. It didn't even hurt :D I laughed as she did that :lol:

Anyways, I met my current gf so I decided to cut the crazy co-worker off. I blocked her calls and on WhatsApp and Facebook. I avoided her at work and ignored her whenever she talked to me.

She quit 3 weeks later.
 

Mohad

The Ocean Star
May 20, 2009
6,684
Leaving them in the dark about if you actually like them or not, by not answering the phone, is the behaviour of a true coward.

sounds like avoidance behaviour to me.

You are more concerned about the girls reaction, the conversation, than about hurting her feelings.
Tried both and that's why mostly I prefer not showing up because girls want you to be more specific when you tell the truth especially the insecure girls. They will start asking the questions like "why?" or "what did you see in me?" or "did I do something wrong?"..etc which makes me regret telling the truth from the beginning not that I'm a coward. Some will understand for sure without explaining anything. The conclusion, girls hate being rejected by men.

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Leaving them in the dark about if you actually like them or not, by not answering the phone, is the behaviour of a true coward.

sounds like avoidance behaviour to me.

You are more concerned about the girls reaction, the conversation, than about hurting her feelings.
Tried both and that's why mostly I prefer not showing up because girls want you to be more specific when you tell the truth especially the insecure girls. They will start asking the questions like "why?" or "what did you see in me?" or "did I do something wrong?"..etc which makes me regret telling the truth from the beginning not that I'm a coward. Some will understand for sure without explaining anything. The conclusion, girls hate being rejected by men.
 

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