What Are You Doing Right Now? (835 Viewers)
- Thread starter ßöмßäяðîëя
- Start date
- Tags gay space iliveforfinasteride iliveforjuve is not white loldevil size queens sweet matt is sweet errwhere virgin devil
Sorry I haven't been able to post for a while. Here's why:
I reconnected with my ex the 16th of January. Turns out she's insanely jealous and has severe traits of BPD. Because I had exams at the time I couldn't see her often. This triggered her fear of abandonment (even if I loved her dearly). So she said she wanted to be friends. I took this literally and went out with a female friend. She went insane. I tried to talk reason into her, she threatened to call the cops. I spoke with her mom soon after this. Jolien (the girl) did not like this. She blocked me on FB, MSN and changed her number. Truly went out of her way to completely erase me. This was not enough however. She also spread vicious lies about me. Really, really vicious. The kind of lies that will make people hate you. Fortunately enough no one really believed her as most know I simply loved her.
I of course did not understand why she was mad and wanted to be friends. So being the moron that I am, I kept contacting her. Now she's in a rebound relationship and I'm starting to have feelings for the friend I went out with. I'm going on a date with her tomorrow. The rebound guy Jolien's with called me up to say Jolien is happy with him now. They're quite the couple he says. Yeah right, I wonder when she's going to eat him alive. I give it another two weeks. I told Jolien she would always love me and I told the guy he didn't stand a chance as he was going to have to compete with me. I know, this is probably a pretty bold move considering she actually hates me with all her heart and says she loves Mr. Rebound.
As for me, I'm seeing other girls. I sort of have feelings for the one I'm dating tomorrow. I have other possibilities lined up, but I don't know about them. Problem is Jolien is drop dead gorgeous. So the other girls don't even come close there. They're less insane. I could have a life with them. But Jolien's so fucking hot. Anyways, you guys think my rebound relationship, which will eventually happen, will make her jealous? I don't know if I want her back anyway, but I'm 100% certain I want to mess with her head.
Somehow I feel like she turned me into a bad person
.
I reconnected with my ex the 16th of January. Turns out she's insanely jealous and has severe traits of BPD. Because I had exams at the time I couldn't see her often. This triggered her fear of abandonment (even if I loved her dearly). So she said she wanted to be friends. I took this literally and went out with a female friend. She went insane. I tried to talk reason into her, she threatened to call the cops. I spoke with her mom soon after this. Jolien (the girl) did not like this. She blocked me on FB, MSN and changed her number. Truly went out of her way to completely erase me. This was not enough however. She also spread vicious lies about me. Really, really vicious. The kind of lies that will make people hate you. Fortunately enough no one really believed her as most know I simply loved her.
I of course did not understand why she was mad and wanted to be friends. So being the moron that I am, I kept contacting her. Now she's in a rebound relationship and I'm starting to have feelings for the friend I went out with. I'm going on a date with her tomorrow. The rebound guy Jolien's with called me up to say Jolien is happy with him now. They're quite the couple he says. Yeah right, I wonder when she's going to eat him alive. I give it another two weeks. I told Jolien she would always love me and I told the guy he didn't stand a chance as he was going to have to compete with me. I know, this is probably a pretty bold move considering she actually hates me with all her heart and says she loves Mr. Rebound.
As for me, I'm seeing other girls. I sort of have feelings for the one I'm dating tomorrow. I have other possibilities lined up, but I don't know about them. Problem is Jolien is drop dead gorgeous. So the other girls don't even come close there. They're less insane. I could have a life with them. But Jolien's so fucking hot. Anyways, you guys think my rebound relationship, which will eventually happen, will make her jealous? I don't know if I want her back anyway, but I'm 100% certain I want to mess with her head.
Somehow I feel like she turned me into a bad person
.
I would say let that wrecking ball destroy Andries II. Poor guy doesn't know what's coming, but that's how you learn in life too. Everybody has to learn the rebound lesson at some point.
Sheik! Dude, not that you asked for my advice. But since I'm one of the ancient guys here who has lived through a lot more than most people, at least in years, you have to put things in perspective.
There comes a time in life when it's all about artificial posturing, the superficial, banging hoes, being with the cool crowd, etc. But there's a reason why most of the cool people in high school peak then and turn into degenerate fat slobs with no jobs and two ex-wives who beat them to bruises on a weekly basis.
The fact is everybody, if you're lucky enough, gets older and the values start to change. In my life, I went from dating hot psycho bitches a la Andries to finally connecting with more of a like kind who has their shit together and is tired of the same crap that I am. And it can work out... and far better than you can envision when you're 22 years old and in the middle of that social set.
The people you associate will catch up to the real Sheik in due time. The thing for you to do is to do your own homework so you're got your act in order when that time comes. You don't want to be the high school king or queen who peaked at age 17 before they ended up as a shit stain of life 10 years later.
