Friendship between Men and Women (13 Viewers)

[Bjerknes]

++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++


ever wondered why not?

Well, there are multiple reasons. They may not have the personality I like, or the looks, or they could be already taken. But it is hard sometimes to make decisions.

 

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[gray]

++ [ originally posted by River ] ++
Of course friendship exists between male and female. Mac is one of my best friends and we dont have a crush on each other. There comes a time when you know someone so well that dating wouldnt be an option. Would like be dating your brother or something

As I said though, at least there's Emma in the picture, so it's not a completely closed-off relationship between you two. I somehow feel that the story would be different if you weren't a whole bunch of friends and it was just you and Mac.

++ [ originally posted by gray ] ++
but when it comes to the point that you're best friends and you do everything together

Basically the word I should have used was "exclusive" friendship

++ [ originally posted by Zlatan ] ++
I can control my dreams. In fact, a lot of people can. It's all about realising that you're dreaming. If you realise that you're dreaming you can dream about whatever you want.

As soon as I realise I'm dreaming, I wake up. The only time I can get out of a dream on purpose was when I was still in my bed-wetting days (I know what's coming, "you mean recently?" ). I realised that every time I went to hang a leak in my dream, I'd wet my bed. So my brain got used to the concept, and from then on, if I was about to go to the toilet in my dream, I'd think "Oh crap, I'm gonna piss myself", and I'd wake up

 

[River]

++ [ originally posted by gray ] ++

As I said though, at least there's Emma in the picture, so it's not a completely closed-off relationship between you two. I somehow feel that the story would be different if you weren't a whole bunch of friends and it was just you and Mac.

Basically the word I should have used was "exclusive" friendship

Its more complicated that that. Theres 4 girls and 3 guys. Its like a society Do you really think Mac would hang around with 2 women all the time?
People in the group have personal relations better with certain people etc.

And Emma and Mac are great friends but keep them together to long and they fucking blow up Emma would go out with you before she would with Mac

 

[River]

++ [ originally posted by Zlatan ] ++
No actually, it can ahppen and it usually happens in the last stages of sleep, just before you're about to wake up. I remember one time I was dreaming about going into a hous. When I was in front of the door, I relised "Hey, this doesnt look right. I must be dreaming". Form that point I could control the dream, do what I wanted, and after a while I said to myself "Im going to wake up now", and I did.

I dont have that much control. But when I dream I usually wake up for a second or two, when going back to sleep I can alter the direction of the dream and I can keep altering it until its over. It usually goes weird after the waking period though

 

[gray]

++ [ originally posted by River ] ++
Its more complicated that that. Theres 4 girls and 3 guys. Its like a society Do you really think Mac would hang around with 2 women all the time?

Exactly, and that's why it's easier not to get emotionally involved with e.g. Mac, since there's always a whole bunch of people together. I think Lili's case is different, since the guy in question seems to be the only one in the picture, therefore they have more personal time together etc

++ [ originally posted by River ] ++
Emma would go out with you before she would with Mac

So there's still hope :extatic:

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++
thanx everyone.
for making me more confused
anyway,i am not complaining.
i knew that all of you would have a different opinion on the matter.

but plz,carry on.
i need more opinions.....

lil in Albania we say "Pyet 7 a 8 e bej si di vete" which practically means screw what others think you have a brain and use it.

 

[Fred]

++ [ originally posted by Zlatan ] ++



Oh come on Tom, you were never really gone :undecide:

 

[Fred]

++ [ originally posted by Don Bes ] ++



lil in Albania we say "Pyet 7 a 8 e bej si di vete" which practically means screw what others think you have a brain and use it.

i agree.

 

[Gandalf]

I don't know why are you so affraid, Lili..

he's your best friend, right? so, you share a lot of things with him.. so, if you are in doubts.. talk to him and clear all this mess out.. nothing better than open discussion..


one question.. are you sure you want to be only his friend.. nothing more..?? cause love could be greater than friendship.. specially if you have this history together..

 

[Lilianna]

++ [ originally posted by Don Bes ] ++



lil in Albania we say "Pyet 7 a 8 e bej si di vete" which practically means screw what others think you have a brain and use it.

hm,i just need some more opinions i guess

 

[Lilianna]

++ [ originally posted by Gandalf ] ++
I don't know why are you so affraid, Lili..

he's your best friend, right? so, you share a lot of things with him.. so, if you are in doubts.. talk to him and clear all this mess out.. nothing better than open discussion..


one question.. are you sure you want to be only his friend.. nothing more..?? cause love could be greater than friendship.. specially if you have this history together..

i guess this is the only thing i must do.
we will talk on the phone anyway tonight...
but still,what will he think if i ask him....


oooooh ppl...i am pathetic sometimes.

 

[River]

++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++

oooooh ppl...i am pathetic sometimes.

Yeah you kinda are. Asking for help from a bunch of single people heh

 

[Lilianna]

i am not asking for help,but for opinions.

do you know the difference??

 

[Fred]

well asking for opinions from a bunch randoms isnt the cleverest thing to do either

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

happens when you have no friends to discuss it with.


oh wait. that would be me.

 

[Fred]

look at the bright side donny.

 

[Lilianna]

++ [ originally posted by fred weasley ] ++
well asking for opinions from a bunch randoms isnt the cleverest thing to do either

i have already asked all my friends

what problem do you ppl have for ****'s sake??

i am asking for an opinion.
have any problem,go and solve it.
don't irritate me with pointless comments

 

[Fred]

i was just kidding lili

 

[Lilianna]

good for you freddy!

btw,remind,did i use to write freddy with 1 d or with double d??

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++

what problem do you ppl have for ****'s sake??

Fred, how did you get her mad so easily? i am trying everything here