Yeah things arent going great with my girlfriend, we are on the very verge of a break at the moment. I really, really like her, so im going to go through the effort to explain my situtation and hopefully rake up some good advice here.
Warning: The ramblings of a teenager love story will ensue. If its not your thing, tune out.
Well anyway, things started to go a bit crappers 2 weeks ago today. I started noticing she wasnt as receptive anymore, and she was a bit strange and nasty when I saw her on saturday. Anyway, the Monday I got a message from saying she was overtaxed- I naturally call, and ask what is wrong. She says she will call me the following friday when she has ironed things out. Anyway, my mum was pressuring me to pick up some crockery that I had left at hers, so I asked her if I could collect it. She brought it over, along with the DVDs I lent her. Not a good sign I knew. Anyway, I chatted to her and we got some of our problems sorted, but it was mostly nothing, as after taking her to the cinema the next evening, she became weird again and non receptive. She finally admitted that she doesnt really emotionally feel attached as much as she used to. I, of course, was devastated upon this news and became very sad. Probably a wrong move to do, as the pity card doesnt really work I found out the hard way.
Anyway, we have been on a break since last friday and I called her today to ask her when we could meet. Saturday it is. anyway, she finally got internet in her flat and I chatted to her on ICQ. I didnt give too much in the way in terms of sad, but not much was said about the situation as we said we would discuss it on saturday. Anyway, it eneded with lets still talk on saturday, but she reckons its over. However, what could go in my favour in this situation is an updated wardrobe. During this week, a friend with extremely good taste took me out and got me some nice clothes, far more in her taste (she even said once earlier on, that she previously thought she could never go out with someone who didnt dress in a certain style ( my clothes werent particuarly stylish admittedly). Anyway, they are 10 fold better now, and now im seeing her saturday. Crunch day admitedly. I was thinking of playing it sauve, non comitted, treating her like a friend, which could work in total contrast to my sadness state I previously had.
Anyway, saturday afternoon. What to do?
And please, no corny ' forget her ' or ' be yourself ' crap. This is a hot 20 year old girl, im not going down without a fight.
Ps. Please dont quote this- sorry to be fussy but I could want to delete this in a few months if I find this absolutely pathetic than
Warning: The ramblings of a teenager love story will ensue. If its not your thing, tune out.
Well anyway, things started to go a bit crappers 2 weeks ago today. I started noticing she wasnt as receptive anymore, and she was a bit strange and nasty when I saw her on saturday. Anyway, the Monday I got a message from saying she was overtaxed- I naturally call, and ask what is wrong. She says she will call me the following friday when she has ironed things out. Anyway, my mum was pressuring me to pick up some crockery that I had left at hers, so I asked her if I could collect it. She brought it over, along with the DVDs I lent her. Not a good sign I knew. Anyway, I chatted to her and we got some of our problems sorted, but it was mostly nothing, as after taking her to the cinema the next evening, she became weird again and non receptive. She finally admitted that she doesnt really emotionally feel attached as much as she used to. I, of course, was devastated upon this news and became very sad. Probably a wrong move to do, as the pity card doesnt really work I found out the hard way.
Anyway, we have been on a break since last friday and I called her today to ask her when we could meet. Saturday it is. anyway, she finally got internet in her flat and I chatted to her on ICQ. I didnt give too much in the way in terms of sad, but not much was said about the situation as we said we would discuss it on saturday. Anyway, it eneded with lets still talk on saturday, but she reckons its over. However, what could go in my favour in this situation is an updated wardrobe. During this week, a friend with extremely good taste took me out and got me some nice clothes, far more in her taste (she even said once earlier on, that she previously thought she could never go out with someone who didnt dress in a certain style ( my clothes werent particuarly stylish admittedly). Anyway, they are 10 fold better now, and now im seeing her saturday. Crunch day admitedly. I was thinking of playing it sauve, non comitted, treating her like a friend, which could work in total contrast to my sadness state I previously had.
Anyway, saturday afternoon. What to do?
And please, no corny ' forget her ' or ' be yourself ' crap. This is a hot 20 year old girl, im not going down without a fight.
Ps. Please dont quote this- sorry to be fussy but I could want to delete this in a few months if I find this absolutely pathetic than
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