Of course I know it's football don't be silly. The Torres incident wasn't a dive, he got clipped from behind and anyone who has ever played the game knows that when you get clipped from behind while running you tumble.
Secondly, Heitinga did grab Iniesta's shoulder initially. Whether it was a yellow card or not is up for debate. However, it should be noted that before the incident the referee had given more than 10 cards in the match and at that point it's up to the players to pay attention to how close the game is being called and act accordingly.
To be honest the plays by Spain with the exception of the Capdevilla roll around and the David Villa offside, were really not that bad. People are simply overreacting because Spain won the trophy and were incorrectly given the fair play award, Capdevilla's actions prove that.